This is the issue. It comes from perspective. and the thoughts of the thread owner which has been encountered in many daily lives Especially in the liquor circle What I have met are friends, seniors, and juniors, coming to vent their feelings about being dumped by their boyfriends. Some of them broke up and the women found new people who were better and got married. But in the end, the metaphor was given to him: "Finally, I like rich people."

And those men still can't see social reality. That is the reason why this article was written. This matter is not biased. The thread owner tries to write as objectively as possible. If there is any mistake I apologize for this amount.

[Article] Social perspectives on “Why do women like older men?”

Nature created humans: men and women. Each type has its own body. Different physical abilities: Men are built to be leaders and women are built to walk alongside them, not just follow them. In social reality, do you feel that men and women are the same age?

But women's viewpoints are much more mature than men like us. Women naturally develop their bodies faster than men. Men aged 25-30 years are very handsome. Both the muscles and the face are perfectly perfect. And women are beautiful from 17-23 years old, after which they begin to fade.

Simply put, it's the peak period. But in the present era, it is hardly usable, but most importantly, women after age 30 years onwards The uterus will begin to atrophy. Therefore, it is not strange that when women reach the age of three, they think about getting married. For this reason, it is the reason that “Why do women like older men?”

Many people have encountered this problem, which is the point of this topic. It is an issue that has been in society throughout every era. It does not happen today, but it has happened since ancient times. Since the generations of our great-grandfathers, and these stories are not very far from us, whether they are the stories of ourselves or our friends.

Or people around us who have to break up with their girlfriends for that reason. “Too young,” “No leadership or maturity,” or your girlfriend meets a new, better man.

Therefore, these problems would like to focus on “Girlfriend meets a new, better man.” This issue answers all the questions. “Why do women like older men?” in this case. It may happen to many people. Whether they were still together or had already broken up. which means

Whether it's cheating or not, it depends. (In this part, I'm not talking about cheating only for women. Men are no different. Infidelity can happen to everyone.) The breakup of a couple is, in fact, How many people will think that they are wrong? Often everyone hears when our friends break up with their boyfriends and get dumped by their boyfriends.

Have you ever had someone tell you about your own mistakes? That this is so wrong. Which I myself rarely encounter, with all the stories I've heard, I have very little to blame myself for.

In the case of "our lover meets a new person who is better" and "cheating", I think these 2 reasons are different. Cheating is when you already have a lover but then go with someone else but Not abandoning the current person, but meeting new people It is choosing what is good for your life for yourself. By leaving the current person behind, which can happen to both women and men. If we know ourselves that we did not take good care of our lover, but the other person is better, it is a pleasure, right? That the lover has found something good? More than ready, which most people often don't understand.

When things like this happen to men, it's often assumed that "Go find someone new because they're richer." This kind of thing actually happens in society, not just Thai society, but it happens all over the world. It's a truth. The more it is a capitalist system, the bigger it is. Until it became a famous phrase: “Women like good people, love bad people, marry rich people.”

When I was still studying, there was a class where the teacher said something like, “Most women think about getting married between the ages of 27 and 30, while men only think about getting married in their 30s.” It's easy to say that women think about getting married before the age of 30. Do you think that at present the average time that women want to marry a man? Like, what are we doing and women liking older men?

It wasn't just because the man was rich. But it is something that is difficult to explain. There's more to it than words. "Rich" has many more things than that. Each person's married life is different. Stability, care and attention. Which is a matter for men like us.

It's often hard to see if the most accurate thing to say is "readiness". Are men like us ready yet? In the current era, there are very few men in the average lifespan who are ready. This is the reason why “Why do women like older men” is because of the following elements.

1. Maturity, the first element that every man should have.

Women like calm men. Have leadership and can take care of and protect her A man who has been through a lot in the world will have a lot of life experience. There is a point of view and reason rather than emotion with what these men have. They have more control over small matters in their married life than during their teenage years.

Especially because men who have been through a lot with women tend to have a more special perspective than others. But how long does it take for a man to have the maturity to match a woman's ideals? In this matter, I cannot answer. But if it comes to a certain point where you have to let go of things that happened during your youth, men who think about getting married and having a family, believe it or not, men can actually cut those things out of their lives. They will be committed to women who will marry

Especially for couples who have been through the 7 year period, I believe that women can see the difference in behavior from men very well. What was the difference between the beginning of their relationship and the later episodes?

I heard the story of a junior who worked with me who was having problems with his partner. who have been together since studying at university The man is in his mid-20s and the woman has only graduated from university for 1 year. That is, the man is 3 years older. They argue with each other because

The woman was the one who asked the man, “We've been together for a long time. Now he has been able to work for a while and would like to ask about our future. What should I do next? What will our married life do next?”

But the man has no answer to the woman, which has been 2 years or 3 years since they have been together. The man still lives the same life as when he was still studying. 3 years since he graduated, there has been nothing substantial, not even words that have convinced the woman.

Then the man replied: “Why do you ask like this? Don't you believe in us anymore?”

And after that incident, my junior broke up with him. But what the man concludes with is the sentence, "Yes, in the end, you like rich people." This kind of sentence shouldn't come out of a man's words.

With such events, women reach working age. Met a new society In this new world, her mind will grow more mature than that of a man's. To move closer to reality is the nature of women. Something that indicates a man's maturity, even though there is still nothing substantial.

But at least there should be words for women to believe that our lovers will take care of us. In this part, it indicates an attitude. Leadership is a part of "maturity" that answers the needs of all women. But until reaching that maturity, Most of the men who have just entered the working age still cling to life like they did when they were still in school. This is the reality in society.

Each man has a different time to reach maturity. Some people may have it early. Some people may have it slowly, so you can say "only when you reach a certain point where you have to let go of what happened during adolescence." This first element is different for each man. It depends on what level women are satisfied with. Therefore, with this maturity, it is necessary for women to enter the real stage of life.

2. Family status/status of the man, security, job

When talking about the elements in this topic It is the truth of life. There will always be someone who has to bite the salt together before a man can have a job. Stable position in a difficult economy After graduating, the salary starts at 15,000 baht. The living expenses are more than double which is very difficult to establish if a man has to start building himself.

How long will it take for them to be stable? Therefore, we would like to separate the positions of men into 4 positions.

2.1 Very rich base

A man in this position is very easy for women to give importance to. If we were to say it casually, it would be like, "Even if you don't have to make a living, you'll have something to eat and use for your children and grandchildren." There's no need to explain much. The answer to a woman's life depends on whether the man is mature enough or not.

2.2 Rich status

In this day and age, the word "rich" alone is still difficult to achieve. Simply put, it's like that. “There will only be one generation of children if we don't find more. Our grandchildren's generation will starve to death." But in terms of making women choose, it's still the same as in the above situation.

2.3 Medium status

Most of them are salaried families. which at present can be seen There's just enough to own a house, you have to have a car, you have to pay installments. which men in this position It starts with building a body, but how long does it take to build a body?

2.4 Poor status

Difficult to speak In contrast to the first position

From mentioning the status of men 2 The first position doesn't have much to explain because it depends on the maturity of the man. But let's focus on the middle position. That's because men in this position It has many logics. To think of someone is starting from scratch. From a status at home that had nothing to support me, I started out as a salaried person.

From what was said above, nowadays starting at 15,000 baht until the salary increases enough to take care of another person. If you want to buy a house or a car, these things cost hundreds of thousands or even millions, the worse the status of your home. He had to give his family a better status first. Let your parents be comfortable first, then the question is when will they have enough money?

Give it to another person who comes into your life these days and can honestly say that he is definitely 30 years old.

A man in this position will have to make his family more comfortable than it was before before accepting another person into his life. Therefore, women who choose a man in this position need to help each other earn a living and build themselves together. Some are there, some aren't. It is possible to live together and the more poor the situation is, the tighter the mouth.

It makes it even more difficult.

3. Family status/status of the woman

A troubling matter for men who are lower in status than women is acceptance from the woman's family. When parents give their daughter to someone, the family definitely considers their status. It's a difficult matter. We have to please him and take care of us in the way we raise our children. We both love and cherish him very well. There is no parent who would let their child be in trouble with a man who has nothing.

Especially if the woman's family used to have the same status as the man's before, his parents would know that. If you marry this man He couldn't help but worry if it would be like when we didn't have it or not. Do you have to skip meals? Therefore, this point is related to the second element mentioned.

4. Humans are “animals”

If you look at things like this as natural, men are male animals. And women are female animals. Even though humans are known as noble creatures, when women begin to menstruate. It is an indication that they are ready to reproduce in the early ten years or so. It depends on each person's readiness.

But humans have culture and traditions and laws. They have more ideas about right and wrong than other animals. Plus the world has changed. It therefore keeps these matters within the framework of society, but actually it is human instinct. It's an animal after all. Therefore, choosing a partner is no different from animals. I want everyone to view this as a fact of life.

“Peacocks during the mating period Courtship and mating when a flock of female peacocks Foraging through the male's territory, the male will enter and join in the feeding. After that, he will perform the tail dance to show off to the female by flexing the tail feathers or rudder parallel to the ground. Then slowly lift it perpendicular to the floor.

Along with unfolding the tail into the shape of a large green fan, decorated with Mayura glitter. blue-green, iridescent blue-orange Spread across the entire sheet, spread both wings out, support the body, and raise the neck slightly high. Then he took a step, walked, and spun around the female, crying out. Sometimes it shakes its tail feathers.”

“The life of a male lion is full of power struggles. The leader of the herd must fight vigorously to maintain his throne, to the death. If he loses, he will be banished from the herd. and the winner takes control of the herd instead. On average, each leader only holds the position for about 2-3 years.

When the new leader has seized control of the old leader. After approximately three months of taking over the new leader's flock, The females in the herd will begin to show signs of seduction. But still refused to breed immediately. Young lions take some time to select the strongest male, which is usually the

The biggest one is the father of the child.”

From the two examples above, it is similar to humans. A male peacock with beautiful feathers is like a man of good standing, while a male lion is like a man who can protect women's lives from danger. It can be seen that women will choose the best man. To be able to take care of my life is not strange at all.

Out of the four elements mentioned above, I think the first one is the most important. The second and third elements are the parts that complement the first element of a man. As for the last element, it is just the truth of every human life, so I would like to confirm the original statement.

that in the end it is The "readiness" that men have for women who want to start a family. This word "readiness" depends on each person as to when they will be ready. But the majority that can be found are in the age range of 28 - 35 years, plus or minus no more than this. And it is undeniable that men in this age group are more prepared than men under 28 years of age.

Even though the family or the man himself is rich and has enough to eat But it is not something that is confirmed. Will be able to take care of women So don't worry about money. Even though it's not important, it's a necessity in life. Hey!! The more you talk, the more you argue with each other. It's better to end it.

In the end, it's just a theory. In real life, there are many logics and reasons. Too much to explain No matter how old you are, older, younger, or the same age, as long as every man has the first point as an important part, that's enough. Because no matter how rich you are, if you can't take care of the woman you love, it won't mean anything.

When it comes to love, there is no right or wrong. It's a matter of understanding and not understanding each other.

refer

http://men.kapook.com/view115062.html

http://www.unlockmen.com/why-women-find-older-men-more-attractive/

Most of the references to these two stories are a matter of maturity and status as a whole.

Finally, this is a souvenir of my first work.

http://pantip.com/topic/34378794

The next work will probably be an article that says “Why do men like younger women?”

Thank you for following and reading.