In the end, whether good or bad, time will blow it into memories.

When the day comes that we look back again, we will smile, understand, and be grateful for those things that it has taught us to grow....

…Are you trying to forget???…

We all have stories we want to forget. Or want to erase it from your memory

Most of which probably won't escape the story of suffering. Sad moments, somewhere, some place, or someone that affects our feelings in some angles. It may make us feel dull or stuck with it when we think about it. Or it may prevent us from going anywhere if we still remember and feel.

Or rather, some memories, some stories are like a constant sharp needle that pricks our feelings for as long as we remember. It still hurts every time and it's annoying that we can't control our brain to do what we want.

And there may be a fraction of a second where we tend to think There's a button to press to delete certain memory files. It would be easy.

Many people try very hard to forget something.

Until sometimes I forget to remember that Every time we try to forget something

It just means we're thinking about that. and reinforce it to remember

In the end, it probably will never disappear. He also buried himself deeper. Stuck with that matter to the point where I can't walk away.

The question is, what should I do?? Because if that matter still exists The suffering and pain will probably never go away.

So try to think about it slowly. If the story that you want to forget It is like a bar of iron that pierces our body.

It must be painful and painful, right? And if you don't pull it away We cannot recover from that pain. Unable to live a normal, happy life And someday the pain may cause us to die (like our feelings when we receive pain to the point where we will not be able to return to our old selves again).

Iron that begins to rust begins to have a harmful effect on us over time. Like the pain that begins to eat away at us, causing the sadness to sink deeper and deeper into the story that we want to forget. It's no different than the pain that begins to eat away at our smiles and cheerfulness.

But….some of those things It couldn't be pulled away as easily as the mind thought. There must have been many times that we tried. After all, we ourselves know what to do with it. But forgetting isn't as easy as it says.

Or sometimes we can't pull it because we're afraid our hearts will hurt from the prick marks that will be opened. Or in fact, we may still not want it out of our hearts. Because this iron was like the last thing its owner had left behind. So I'm willing to suffer in order to still have it in my heart.

But the iron has its sharp point pointed towards our hearts. Existing pain It might be better than the pain that's gone.

Sometimes it has some difficulty in dealing with thoughts. Memories and painful stories And often we give up on forgetting and try to live with it, endure it, but the words we tell others that we understand and can accept. We mean it with a lot of heart. Because sometimes it still hurts And the tears still flow

It might mean that it hasn't disappeared at all. Or are we just fooling ourselves that we're still okay? In the end, it may lead to addiction to the pain that we stay with for a long time. Get used to the pain in your heart and let it go. And in the end, the bright, original self dies anyway. In the end, deep down, we're still depressed about it. That iron is still embedded in our bodies.

So what do we have to do??

Then imagine this again: if we break our leg, we will be in pain and unable to walk. Then the doctor took the same steel bar. The stick that used to pierce our body Take it and bury it in your body. so that the legs can continue walking It can hurt a lot at first. It's very difficult to pull it and move it.

But we'll start to get better. Even though there are some scars It still hurts a bit. But it will get better. Even though the steel rod is still in our body as before.

Why not???

The answer is because it moved to the right place. and is managed appropriately

Because it is used as something useful. What makes a person with a broken leg able to continue walking strong?

because of reality That painful story is already over. Even though it's not over yet But it happened. And it's a past event. So it shouldn't be in our hearts anymore.

So our mind no longer uses the appropriate space for it. When it's in an inappropriate place It caused more harm than good.

Our hearts, feelings, and thoughts Should be updated regularly or the word

clear cache

That means eliminating garbage or unnecessary information from us. so as not to make it too heavy Our minds don't have enough space to store things from the past. Even though we still have to use it in the present and the future.

But some stories We can't really erase it. What we should do is move it and store it somewhere. Of course, it still hasn't disappeared. But it was managed and kept in the right place.

Because sometimes No matter how good it used to be It's worthless and causes pain if it's not in the right place. Where it deserves to be

But some things are like waste. It can be useful if used in the right way, in the right place.

That billet is like a painful story that we want to forget. Forgetting or erasing it It's like throwing it away, destroying it, but sometimes erasing it. Or throwing away those memories is definitely a good thing??

If we throw away that iron bar And what happens next when I break my leg?

If we forget today's pain And what if the same event happens again….if we forget how sad we were? If we forget why we are sad If you forget what hurts us

And if you forget how we got through it The story keeps repeating itself. We will be disappointed again and again. Because I never remember the pain today.

We're sad, we're hurt, it's not because we haven't forgotten. But because we don't accept the truth. We still keep stories or that thing in the feeling Sadly, it's not where it should be.

If any story has passed It should just become a memory.

It's like a movie that has already ended. But we refused to get up and walk out of there.

It is difficult to forget anything. And in truth, we may not need to forget.

If you can't forget Let's keep it.

Just have to move from the heart Go to the memory box...

Because in the end, whether it's good or bad, if it becomes a memory

When the day comes that we look back again, we will smile, understand, and be grateful for those things that it has taught us to grow....