Discussion of the principles of psychology by the author himself Based on the knowledge and understanding of the author only, there may be both real and untrue stories. There may be fictional characters in some chapters, but these are just the author's ideas and are not related to any person. I hope that all readers will want to read this psychology perspective.

Try reading with an open mind and being able to exchange ideas. Hopefully our psychology will help heal the hearts of those who are falling and have already fallen. And please help remind people who are confused. Thank you to everyone who is interested in it. We hope everyone can continue to live their lives well.

girl and travel

The woman had been traveling for a long time and found that she never got tired of traveling. She enjoyed traveling everywhere, whether alone or with someone traveling with her. She once had a lover who traveled everywhere with her during her life. Until now, she was just an old woman, over 80 years old.

Without someone to love, you can only think about why the man you love doesn't stay by your side until we grow old together. She could only think. She asked herself over and over, if the man she loved had not come to save her back then, would he still be alive now? She could only think and smile.

Do you know why the girl smiles and doesn't just blame herself like in some love stories where the hero trades his own life for the heroine's life so that the heroine can survive? That's because after she cried and blamed herself non-stop for more than 10 years after the man she loved died from her for saving her life.

She asked herself over and over until one day, 10 years ago, she realized: Everything has a price to pay. There is always a price for everything. But sometimes you have to pay with money like you had to spend money on traveling. Sometimes I pay with feelings. Sometimes it's relationships, sometimes it's time.

Sometimes it's disappointment and regret. And sometimes you have to pay with your life like the man you love paid to get her life back. She realized that instead of crying and blaming herself, she should make the most of the life that the man she loved had traded for all his absence. It will be difficult at first but she believes she can do it. And what about you? We can't get back what we've lost. So do today and the next days well and be happy. Don't dwell on guilt for too long. It's not wrong, but it is. hurt yourself

old memories

It's not impossible to forget and it's not impossible to forget, but every human being has different things to remember and forget. Some people may forget the past because they have a better present. Some people may only remember the past because the present is not as good as the past. But as humans, no matter how much you want to remember beauty, sadness, and regret, at some point in your life you will find that you have already forgotten them or remember them only vaguely, not as clearly as before.

That's when you grow up. As you spend more time around you, you will slowly forget about it and remember the new things you encountered in your life to replace your old memories, but sometimes the word "replace" is not appropriate. Every memory is different. If it can't be replaced, it will likely cause the old memories to fade.

Pure truth

Normally, no one would want to test the truth without mixing anything, right? Because the taste of the truth that doesn't mix anything will always have people who can't accept it. 'Cause it's not like a sweet dream If you try to mix the truth with something else, such as Mixing the truth with your own feelings is fine, but it won't be the truth.

We can't dye the truth. The taste of the truth is probably too bad to accept. Especially with love, you probably think that the truth is a hundred times more bitter, a thousand times more bitter, to the point where sometimes it's completely unbearable because the truth that comes with love is always bitter. If you can't accept it, just spit it out. Don't stay with the word love that you don't love for too long because maybe you already know the truth of the matter, but you just don't want to spit out the love and try to taste the truth. How do you go in instead?

Love yourself, smart person.

When one day you get to the point where you start loving yourself less, you will feel something your body is trying to communicate to you. It may communicate with you through pain that slowly afflicts you, whether it be pain, a cold, a fever, a headache or a burning sensation. If it's very severe, you may go to the hospital. That's how your body communicates with you.

So don't forget to take care of your body before it's too late. Trying to find something delicious to eat. Find happiness for yourself both physically and mentally. Watch movies, listen to music, travel sometimes, relax sometimes, smile at the little things in life. Wake up and enjoy life. Most importantly, try to find happiness in your life each day to apologize to your body for neglecting it and make it strong and ready to fight in the future with you.

looking for answers

In the matter of some relationships, some people's relationships We or he are always looking for answers to questions that arise during our relationship with him. But will you keep looking for answers to the questions in your heart about this relationship when you yourself know the answers best? Don't try looking or asking for it again.

Don't ignore the answers you already know in order to get the answers you want, as this will only make you dwell on them for a longer period of time without benefit or change. The real answer is still the same.

want and want

The needs and desires of each person are different and not equal. Some people may think they are the same but they are not. They are very different. The thin line that separates needs and wants isn't difficult to see, but it's not that easy to see. So we'll give you an example sentence.

If you want something, that means you must use it and it will be useful to you, it is important and it is really necessary for you. But if you want something, you either have it or you don't. It's not necessary to you, just like some room decorations are not necessary, but you just want them for their beauty. That's it.

That's the difference between needing and wanting. What do you think, are you needing or wanting it right now? Or does that person want you or just want you? Ask yourself if you don't want to be someone's thing.

beauty and beauty

Beauty and beauty, what do you think? Are they the same? You can't tell which one is beautiful and which one is beautiful. You can barely see the difference, right? But really, they're different enough because they're just not similar. Beauty is clear, outstanding, more charming and pleasing to the eye. As for beauty, it is simple but sweet.

Soft and smooth and lasts longer. That's the difference.

love and distance

Do you think that distance makes two people who love each other fall out of love? So… you are wrong because distance does not have any effect on people who truly love each other, but it is a long period of time that causes distance between two people who love each other in their relationship. Relationships change over time. The longer the time, the love and connection will be less and less.

So don't let too much time pass. If he gets angry, hurry and reconcile with him before time steals away little by little the good feelings you once had for each other. Then you won't be able to regret it later.

Be someone else

If in some relationship that happened to you You don't know if it's good or not, you just feel like it's not yourself. So why don't you go back to being yourself? Wouldn't it be better if you just made some small adjustments to make yourself a better version of yourself? Stop trying to be someone else.

Just because the person likes you for being who he wants you to be. Because in the end, he doesn't like you for who you are. Be yourself that others will envy.

Has changed

Giving up is easy, accepting is difficult. Do you think that relationships that are full of arguments never have trust? They are not happy when they are together and keep finding fault with each other every day. Never trust each other Relying only on each other's interests, how long will it last? If one day you choose to give up on the relationship, then you have to accept that your heart and his have changed a long time ago. Don't try to hold on to the words of love that you heard in words but never expressed in person. Do anything that has been lost and it cannot be returned to the way it was before.

It's like a broken glass. When we first heard this sentence, we thought that if a glass is broken, it can be rebuilt. Yes, it can be reattached, but it only has a hundred cracks, so it's not as beautiful as before. And if it falls again, it probably won't be able to be reattached again. There's only dust and dust remaining. If you're thinking of buying a new one, you will definitely. How can we be sure that it will work well and be pleasing to us like the old one? It's like a relationship.

Epilogue

If one day you have someone by your side, I want you to do your best to keep him, but you also have to be sure that this person is exactly what I want. This is the person I'm going to spend the remaining half of my life with. This is the person I'm ready to comfortably tell everything to. This person is you ready to support him and he is ready to support you in every matter.

Because if you're not confident in your relationship, you'll be hurt if you make the wrong choice. The thin line that arises between relationships, before you do anything, think carefully. Because it's fragile and breaks easier than you think.