Many people have probably gone through this point. The point where you have to regret love

It is something that the author of this thread wrote based on a true story. Where we encountered the incident that happened in a university leak, there was a woman who came to talk with us. He is a friend of another friend of ours. So I had a chance to get to know him better from a friend's recommendation. At the beginning, we had a fun conversation, talking like friends talking.

Until after 1 week he said he liked me and talked with us more and more, asking me about various things for about 1 week. But during that time, we still didn't feel anything for him. But I talked to him politely. When he called to talk to me, I didn't want to talk for long. Until he disappeared for 2-3 days. Instead, it's me who feels like I don't have him to talk to and feel disheartened.

So I greeted him and told him that I had good feelings for him when he disappeared. We felt bad. He asked back that when he wanted to talk to me, why didn't he want to talk to me? So he replied that at that time we were not acting properly. Because we have never been in love and we still don't know if we decide to talk at that time what the future will be like. and then apologize to him

After that, we talked all the time, calling and talking every day, but would talk late at night because he said that most of the time he would stay with friends and then talk when he got to his room. We were okay with saying hello and he responded. Called and talked about studies and life at university.

Until we talked about 1 month ago The last phone call also happened but the conversation lasted for a long time until he asked: Do you still want to talk to him? I said I want to talk. But he replied that he wanted to end this. Because he felt that he had lost his heart to us since he disappeared at that time. He talked to me because he still wanted to move on but the feeling couldn't come back. So we said yes.

We are OK but very sad. After that day, I thought that I would never greet him again, but I still wanted to be friends with him. Because I still want to talk to you when we meet face to face because we see each other often. So I greeted him and said that from now on we would like to talk as friends. He said OK.

But our feelings still miss him all the time. Thinking about the things we talked about, the things we shared with each other At that time, we felt good enough that without him to talk to, it felt like life was nothing. It makes us unable to concentrate on doing anything. What we are writing to tell is this story that just happened to us 2 days ago. So it may cause us to still feel like we miss him all the time.

It was our first love too, so we knew too much. And it may have been my own fault for not asking to talk to him when he was exhausted. When he wants to talk to you, he doesn't want to talk. It's our own fault for thinking slowly and acting slowly. Until he lost all desire to talk to me. Do you guys think we can still talk like friends?

Anyone who has experience with first love, please express your opinion.