“True love”
I have spent decades getting to know this.
But it seems that the goal is still far away.
Maybe it's because I haven't found true love yet.
Or that true love hasn't found me yet...
However, time has made me learn something. I have noticed that we all have reasons. To have love all together And that makes me disagree with the statement. “True love has no reason.”
I always had a hypothesis in my mind. “People have various reasons for being in love. These reasons will only come from our heads and hearts. which if there is only one Our love may fail in the end.”
It's probably not difficult to guess.
“Reason from the head and reasons from the heart"
Here, it is thoughts and feelings.
Many people use the idea of being in love like I think there will be a new love to spite the old one. Even though I didn't feel very good about my new lover. Loneliness is another reason why many people think about having a lover. Even though there is no love He or she just asks for anyone to help them get through this time. It's probably not fair.
Just a friend to kill time Can be found from the contacts that are saved in our phone. It's not to play with anyone's feelings.
Some people think of falling in love with someone in their dreams who actually exists. Because everyone dreams of having a perfect lover, including looks, work, temperament, family origin, or status. And when they meet, they agree and forget to ask themselves, How do you really feel about him? It's strange how sometimes perfect people are worth less to us than ordinary people we love.
While many people think It's better to love the person who loves us. This seems to be the most weighty thought. Because there are many couples who start out with love like this. If we don't count the disadvantages that This kind of love has stakes! Because he or she must make the other person feel connected before they make a mistake.
Otherwise, the existing relationship will end immediately. Because we cannot tolerate, forgive, or give a chance to people we do not love or are attached to.
Arriving here, the side that is revered Feelings may say
“Of course, using only thought. leading to failed love
Because being in love is a matter of
Feelings are all different.”
That's not wrong, but that's not right.
quite
Many people shed tears Even if we are with the person we love, because we love him one-sidedly. Someone once told me “As long as I can love him on one side, I will be happy.” I used to admire this kind of thinking. But then I found that escaping humanity Who still has needs, expectations, and the desire to belong. How difficult is it?
Because we can't be happy. Seeing how soulless he was during every moment he was with us. We can't be happy. When in my heart there is a question of how long will it take for him to love me? And we cannot be happy If one day he meets the person he loves Regardless of whether he chooses to stay or leave us.
Being in love with someone we love and he loves us. It's probably the best way. But don't be angry. If I would say “Just we love each other” isn't enough. That's because we weren't born to seek someone to love. and then selfishly die from this world But we are born with a duty to our family, society, and those around us. If our love
Causing ourselves or others to suffer too much If it makes the people we love sad and disappointed or if it is against morality and ethics Can we turn our backs on these things and use “because we love each other” as an excuse?
I myself am not sure.
Having someone to love using only
thoughts or feelings
Which one is more painful?
I may have to spend the rest of my life trying to figure it out…
Today my hypothesis may not have been proven. But I was able to come to the initial conclusion that Loving someone with my whole "heart_heart" would take me far enough. To finally find the true love that I have been searching for for a long time.
Where has my love gone? My love goes further and further.
Where is my love? Why is it not like anyone else?
among many people I, for one, have a heart_heart too.
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