The day it was "cool"

At first, I was informed that this December's challenge would be to write about love again. The first thought was “Again?” and the thought that followed was “There's nothing to write about.” As soon as I thought of this, I suddenly felt exhausted and couldn't write. But just in time last Saturday (28 Nov. 09)

I had the opportunity to go to the wedding of a friend from high school. It was the first time ever that I went to a friend's wedding. On the day of the event, there was nothing more special than going to a friend's wedding for the first time. After the event, we returned home with the most special memory of our friend (the bride) crying with her tearful words: “

It was a wedding beyond my dreams” and “It was cool” were nothing more memorable than that.

But the next morning while driving to Chachoengsao on the Bangkok - Chonburi (Motorway) road, I suddenly remembered the event the night before. Think of the bond of a newlywed couple who have been together for 8 years, since they even graduated from high school, side by side until they had a special day before anyone else in the same age group.

Then I suddenly thought of someone's statement that "The only obstacle to love It's when two people don't love each other.” Because as long as two people love each other, Other things are not an obstacle. Therefore, when we see two people overcome every obstacle to get to this day together, we can't help but smile along with them. But when I thought about it further, “What about us?”

Just like this, the tears flowed out and couldn't be stopped. It's because of this one obstacle. We ourselves have never been able to get past it. Even though we used to have a long relationship. Similar to both of them before. That is, I have been with a very good woman since I entered university' (year 45). We have been together for so long that we can say that the word "love" has no effect on us anymore.

A relationship that has passed until it becomes a bond. It's a feeling. It is a memory that we are together, side by side. Wherever we are, there will be someone there. We've been together for so long that we can be sure that we can be together for the rest of our lives. We've been together until we felt like there were only external obstacles that kept us from reaching that "cool" day.

But the factor of our feelings can never be an obstacle. Because I feel like I can't live without her. Just as she herself probably feels like she can't live without me as well.

But then the impossible became possible. When we finally had to "break up," it was caused by factors that belonged to the two of us. Two people who had hardly ever quarreled with anyone in their entire lives suddenly quarreled. Until finally they had to break up in order to keep the good feelings that were left. We cannot overcome obstacles alone.

Because of our own identity. Makes me think of true love songs, I can't take care of them. The song that I listen to when I'm disappointed and when I'm sad is so sad. But it's probably true as they say. that listening to this song while still in love will be more beneficial will be reminded

At weddings, we saw our friends cry almost throughout the ceremony. From morning until evening Saw it and felt that Our friends are very into love. It brings us to the answer: Why did my friend get this day before anyone else? That's because he's really into love. And the reason that we still can't have that day might be because we're not yet into love.

Because compared to our friends It's like we hardly ever give anything to the word love. Not one with it It doesn't get to the heart of the word love. And it doesn't even come close to feeling the feelings of someone who cries at their own wedding. Thinking at this point, the tears that had begun to dry began to flow again.

along with the thought in his head that Our friends are really awesome. It's very big. Last Saturday's event was There really are two men.

All this time There are many people who come to consult with us about love. which we gave a lot of advice Almost everyone thanked us and said that we helped them a lot. It's really good advice. We have also written and talked about the feeling called love quite a bit. which there are some people who like

and said it was very well written. Moreover, we also feel that We have learned a lot about the word love. and long enough both from our own experiences and from people around you Makes us think that we know enough about love. But now we feel that Maybe compared to our friends, we don't know anything about love at all.

It's not even a fraction of what many people have access to. But instead, he has a face that offers to introduce himself to others, give advice, and even write stories for others to read. Thinking about it, it's embarrassing that I still have the face to recommend to anyone else. I myself don't know anything yet. that I have always learned to love Ultimately, what is love? Today we don't even understand it.

When I thought of this, I had to park my car on the side of the road to calm my mind. before continuing to drive

All that has been said does not mean that I want to go back and make amends or fix anything in the past. But the wedding that day was like an inspiration. Let us do today and in the future better than before, be in love, learn about it, and overcome that one obstacle. So that I can have my own "cool" day.

"It's not too hard to find some love

but it's also not easy to make that love to be forever."

Thapanee – Chanon

(28 November 2009)

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