When I'm pregnant

Problems that teenagers don't think about

Because you "think it's too far away"

"When I'm pregnant"

Due to a topic on the Dek-Dee website Writer's board The original owner of the topic intended to study and find information about this matter. Originally, I wasn't too impressed with it. Until someone answers the comment. Which causes me to feel aroused and doubt among teenagers these days.

I'm not an adult. As a teenager, my ideas and articles are not based on academic principles. But distilled and derived from what is called 'humanity', something that I think everyone has.

This article doesn't seem interesting at all. But I think we all overlook it. with what will happen with this I don't give much. But before reading from now on I want everyone to ask themselves a question in their hearts.

“If I get pregnant, what will I do?”

Please take a moment to think. Don't just scroll down and read.

Please use your answer. Consider what I will write next.

The problem of teenage pregnancy these days is so widespread. Because of the thoughtlessness of the youth who acted Didn't think of the consequences I think you guys already have some answers in mind. What will you do if you get pregnant?

I once had a conversation with a friend saying, “If you get pregnant, will you take out the baby?” At first I was joking. But my friend replied to me, “Take it out. If you really get pregnant, you'll have to have an abortion.” (I'm using a slightly rude word.) At that time, I was very angry at my friend. Don't you understand that one person can hurt a child?

What is wrong with that child? They have the right to be born.

I believe there are many people who think this way. At that time, I asked my friend, “Why? Don't you feel sorry for the child?” My friend replied: “I feel sorry for the child. But we're not ready to raise children. We're too young, right? And then the child is born and has no future.

When we are not ready, the child that is born has no future. It's more pitiful."

It is true that children who are born It comes from the readiness of parents. But what right do you have to decide that child's life? No one knows the future. I once read the story of a beggar boy who had to eat dirt and grass, but he fought for his life until he had a business. I believe that children born

They certainly didn't eat dirt and grass like the beggars in this story. They had rice and a place to sleep. I think the life of the child who was born Not bad He still has a future that he can create for himself. But the person who thinks that a child has no future and cuts off that child's future by having an abortion is the one who harms that child.

Everyone always thinks that this is a distant matter. I don't need to care. Somehow it didn't happen to me! Do you know that if something happens, it will happen? It can happen as you wouldn't expect. Let me give you an example that seems a bit strange. I read in the news that someone was driving and the overpass suddenly collapsed. Car driver crushed to death It looks sad

But what I want to say is Sometimes things will happen when you don't expect them. So we should prepare ourselves for it. And I think you guys might be thinking “Hey! How do you prepare? Do you want me to buy baby bottles and toys and wait?”

One thread I've read He asked people on the board: “If you are raped Will we be able to love a child born to a stranger?” In this case, we can legally have an abortion. If this were the case, would you choose to have an abortion? There are many people, many answers, you may not be ready. and decided to have an abortion

or even fun-loving teenagers I thought, "This won't be a problem," until I got pregnant. When you guys did You guys didn't even think about what came next. You are responsible for the life that is born.

I want you to think again. I want you all to stop thinking about having an abortion. These children are not at fault. He had the right to be born. You guys may not love him. might hate him But you have no right not to kill him.

I want you to think I am a child made by mistakes. Do you want your mother to abort you?

There are many people around me who make mistakes. I would like to tell you a story. my father's friend She was a girl who got pregnant while in high school. Her parents scolded and hit her. It is normal if something like this happens. Her family is ready and willing for A to have an abortion. and is ready to lie that his child was raped

People around him supported it by claiming that “You still have a future. Don't let these things ruin your future. Just take it out." But this girl stood alone and said, "I won't take my child out. I will resign to raise my child.” This was another story my father told me. My father said that the whole room when they heard the news applauded her. She dropped out of school to raise a child and gave birth, but she did not continue her studies.

My father said that you said “I sacrificed my future for what I did. But I won't let this child waste my future with me. This kid still has a future. If I hurt him I will die and not be able to sleep.”

I think teenagers these days lack the ability to think carefully. I think you made a mistake. But you still have a choice to make another life a future. that you had an abortion I think you are no different than a selfish person. You are willing to kill one life to give yourself a better future. But vice versa, if you give birth to that child.

It doesn't necessarily make you without a future.

Who decides that people who don't study have no future? I don't think that's true. Each person's future is different. It depends on who will create it.

So now you may still think that this matter, left and right, is still far from us. But what we can do for everyone is 'protect'. It's not much at all. Just stop dressing scantily. Because it communicates, 'Come on, I'm ready!' Stop hanging out late at night. or flirting too much with the opposite sex

Because the person who will be sad is none other than you.

I'm writing a novel. Even in my novels, I try to tell readers that every action affects the future. If compared What will you do? I want you to consider the benefits and disadvantages. It's not just for fleeting fun. You all have a choice. But we often blame heaven and earth and fate, saying we never had a choice. I think it's not true.

You choose to protect yourself or not. You choose not to screw up or let yourself go. You can choose to support one life or harm a few. People often overlook what they have. If you look back carefully, you have many choices. You just don't know how to think carefully.

I don't think what I write can completely change anyone's mind. But I want you to try changing it.

Finally...I'm asking you one last time. Think to yourself:

“If I get pregnant, what will I do?”

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